Dating starts out easy. Remember being a teenager and asked out to your first movie date. Those dates were innocent. They involved only popcorn, soda, a few giggles and maybe a kiss. He just wanted to enjoy your company, brag to his friends and maybe cop a feel of your boob (still, the date was …
Stop overthinking last night’s failed efforts to take your man to his peak. Delayed and failed ejaculations are surprisingly normal. I know, we all think of our vaginas as a magical realm that has the ability to get us whatever we want. I’m sorry to break this news to you. But, in reality, our vaginas …
Can we skip the intro? This title speaks for itself. Open relationships and polygamy are probably the most debated topics in love. Because love is such a passionate and powerful emotion, everyone is stern in their opinion about them. Honestly, I never had an opinion about an open relationship besides, “nah, not for me.” My …
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The trials and tribulations during a relationship are endless. One minute, you’re fighting over an ex and five minutes later, the argument is about your favorite bra that’s missing. Yes, the bra argument is personal. I’m still just having a hard time figuring out where it could be when it was last seen with him …
As teenagers, girls begin to fantasize about boys. Most dream of a happily ever after and walk down the aisle with the man of their dreams. And, there are some girls that dream about nights of lust and romance, on a beach with the man of their dreams. That was me, I was one of …
Becoming a side chick can either be a choice or the unfortunate path that life led you in. However, in both cases, is the side chick really the one to blame? Why does she have to be slandered as a side chick? Maybe, she just made the mistake of trusting a man. Not too long …
I was having a major soul-searching moment. It was sparked by another failed dating attempt. So, I decided to change my life around -yet again. I canceled all plans and forced myself to sit in and read self- help books. I also called my spiritual friend Carmelita for help. She’s the most poised and calm …
Usually, I’m the complicated friend that has a breakdown every other Friday night. But this night I was sent a message from my friend Tiarra stating: 911 meet me at my house with a bat and black light. Tiarra never has drama so without questioning, I fled to my car and headed out to find …
Yes, and her name is Tasha. I know she might read this and become upset that I’m exposing her faultiness. But, this is exactly what happens when you hurt the feelings of your best friend, who happens to be a writer (shrug.) Tasha and I have discussed and settled our differences in private, but our …
Break-ups are full of regrets, but it’s the after a break-up period where shit can really get regretful. Can I share a story about the time I hooked up with my co-worker? I had good intentions. However, this fling quickly turned into a nightmare – and to this day his awful foreplay haunts me. I take …